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Marriage is A Choice

Marriage is A Choice

Tweet A man chooses a woman. A woman chooses a man.   Then they get married and the fairytale version of life says that they live in bliss happily ever after, no effort required.     Ummmm…no…  Marriage is work. Work that provides great dividends and satisfaction. Work that requires lots of thought and effort no matter how great the love is.   But more important, marriage is a choice. A choice you make day in and day out. A choice to … Read entire article »

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Black & White Is Really A Hue Of Choices

Black & White Is Really A Hue Of Choices

Tweet “I have no choice.” He said to me.   “You always have a choice. Sometimes you need to choose between two sucky choices but you have a choice.” I answered, trying to keep my frustration in check at the disheartened and fatalistic life attitude.   Even though at times it may look it, the world is not black and white. Every minute of every … Read entire article »

Beginnings Involve Letting Go

Beginnings Involve Letting Go

Tweet   We yearn for growth and new beginnings, yet so many of us lament about being stuck.   The truth is, we are the only ones holding ourselves back. Sure, we can make all kinds of excuses why we can’t do this thing or the other thing, but let’s get real with ourselves, if we really wanted to do something, no one could … Read entire article »

It’s Hard To Turn The Lens On Yourself

It’s Hard To Turn The Lens On Yourself

Tweet Most of us spend at least a few minutes a day in front of mirrors. But how often do we find comfort in our reflection as opposed to finding it unsatisfactory? I know that I’ve personally never seen a woman pass a mirror without taking a quick peek at herself, and more often than not she will then also fix … Read entire article »

We All Find Ways To Compensate For The Things We Think We Lack Or Think We Lack

We All Find Ways To Compensate For The Things We Think We Lack Or Think We Lack

Tweet We all have faults. They might be physical, emotional, or moral, but we all have them.   Some people wear their faults on their sleeves, bemoaning to anyone who will listen what they hate about themselves or what’s wrong with them. Others hide their faults, ashamed to acknowledge them, afraid to share them, unwilling to uncover them lest others see their vulnerability.   The … Read entire article »

Get The Facts Jack

Get The Facts Jack

Tweet I found her behind the drawn curtain.   She was sitting cross legged in the center of the bed with tears rolling down her face. Her bright blue eyes were were all red from crying.  She was all alone, trying to compose herself, with no success. The faster she wiped away her tears the faster they flowed.   I gave her a big hug … Read entire article »

You Can’t Just Wish The Noise Away

You Can’t Just Wish The Noise Away

Tweet You don’t notice it at first.   A subtle little squeak. It disappears as fast as it came, making you question whether you heard it all. And then it’s back, showing absolutely no regard for your state of mind or the time of day.   With each passing hour and each passing day, the dissonance intensifies. It demands your attention until with no warning … Read entire article »